Growing up I discovered that maybe I have difficulty communicating. Because I used to just speak my mind, and I found out that people didn’t like that. So I started to not speak my mind and be quiet and spend more time listening and talking because it seems like whenever I said what I was thinking people didn’t like what I had to say. So fast forward now to being an adult, I don’t really like sharing unless I feel like it’s a safe space for me to say what’s on my mind without being miss judged you misunderstood.
Obviously, this creates another set of problems because often I won’t say what’s on my mind in the moment, and then it’ll come out in weird ways afterwards. Which is what happened between a person and me recently. I’ve had a certain set of observations that I wanted to share. Then I didn’t share them. And then when I got annoyed with the fact that I hadn’t shared them, and other things were happening because I hadn’t shared said observations, it just came out in verbal vomit.
passionate verbal vomit 🤮
A Clueless Blackgirl 
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